Teen saal.......
10th August 2001........my first day in America........I was lucky because my cousin was there to recieve me and he took very good care........I came to Akron a few days later..........like most other new students.......I didnt know what to expect and what not.................I had dreams and fears alike..............and a bag full of insecurities.........
Things were not easy initially for the always easily worked up me..........my so called friends from Pune ditched me .....as soon as I got here..............so I had to look for a house and roommates.........eventually things were fine.......and life in Akron started......
Three roommates.....Deepthi, Arati and Raj...........we had lots of fun.......the guys and Torrey......the walks after dinner..........Deepthi and me dancing in the living room ..........the mota kala lamba ladka.....at our doorstep :)......
And obviously the differences........fights over coooking....cleaning......almost everything........and that was fun too......
After a year ......came the time to move yet again...........5 of us this time........we went house hunting.....found this lovely place...............and were all set to make it our home...........that was some experience...................the best was our house warming party.........80 americans gate crashed it for the free booze.................but we had fun.......those lavish sunday breakfasts.........sitting outside on a beautiful day.......all of us eating together.......listening to old hindi music......dancing.....movies.......parties.........sharing a room with Shyamala..........not for a day did I feel I had problems doing that........it was like living with a younger sister I never had........but yes there were fights in the house as always.............cleaning cooking etc etc.....those come with the good things.......and in some ways the tiny miny arguments are fun too........after you share so much....spend lovely times together......differences are a must..........but unforseen circumstances...................made me change that house too.................and then I moved to Timber Top ..............Pankaj and Madhu.......my present roommates.........................and the last one year .......has been more than I could have ever asked for...................a home that we built from scratch.............this time last year..........we were frantically shopping for our new house...............in this one year........we have had all the fun that I did in the previous years and much much more..........and now we have to move again.............though together this time..........but we move again....................and I dont want to leave the house I am in ...................but I know better........I have been lucky ever since I came to Akron in finding roommates who care.........
I can be very moody..........dominating to say the least ..................and a bit too difficult at times to handle................I remember the hot chocolates Arati would make for me.....and the gossip we indulged in..................I had got used to sleeping in the same room with Shamu........how we would talk or read........before sleeping and then both of us would never wake up in the morning........you first....no you first....................the times when Raghav sat at the my bedside when I wasnt well or simply angry at something ...............and fed me food like a younger brother...woh roothna woh manana...............the times when Anurag and I sat to talk .....after he was completely drunk.............Madhu......my partner....she is there for me in more than one ways...............and last but certainly not the least........Pankaj!!
The bad part is I have had to move every year......and that can be a pain...............but the good part is the memories I have of the last three years........the people who cared for me and vice versa......................and when I look back today ................the feeling is......I am really lucky!